so did I abuse / Myself, my servant and, I fear me, you Olivia sent Malvolio to Cesario with a ring, under the pretense that Cesario had left the ring with her and she was refusing it. In doing this, she dishonored herself by lying and by being too forward; she dishonored her servant, Malvolio, by putting him in a false position; and she dishonored Cesario by imputing to him a churlish action—throwing the ring at her.